OP you say you have some sort of mental issues and it makes it difficult to deal with people to the point that you're easily provoked. I am not going to tell you to just stop getting easily provoked because that's not how any illness works. You can't just will an illness away whether it's mental or physical. Getting control over your health can take a lot of time and therapy.

But with that being said, if your mental state prevents you from keeping your behaviour in check which then means you get reported to GMs to the point of almost losing your account...then you need to stop playing multi-player games. If you're as easily goaded into provocation and you imply, then you don't have a suitable mental state for multi-player games. At the very least you really need to take a break. Step back for a while and reboot before you try again.

I'm sorry to say this but the position you're in now leads me to think that in this instance the problem is you, not SE. They're are not going to change the rules of social etiquette because 99% of players can abide by them just fine without issue. The gain in changing them would be so tiny it's frankly not worth their time and money.

What you could do, after a very long period of good behaviour on your main account, is appeal the status of your account. I have no idea if SE would look into it but if you are able to prove that you can play for a long time without causing trouble they might lift some of the strikes from your account. I estimate you would need at least six months of good behaviour.

But this cannot happen without some change on your end. You need to take a break, maybe find other people to play with if they're part of the problem, or even go to a new server and start fresh. Some changes in real life are needed as well. Get some professional help if possible. Just continuing as you are now will doom you to losing your account.

Even if SE did change the rules this won't stop your mental issues causing road blocks and confrontation elsewhere in your life and in other games. Changing the rules would be little other than a band-aid fix for the true heart of the issue. In this case the change needs to come from you, not SE.