Damn, sorry you had to go through this. I understand the parts about FC's aging, maybe some groups of people who are not on the same wavelength, and such.
But, fortunately, i have not experienced the ridicule or confrontation from anyone in my years playing.

I suppose, it's like life in general though. It's kind of like a honeymoon phase in the beginning, and then you hope that there is strength in the relationship/community that makes it lasting and able to overcome the rough patches.

Good luck in the future though!