You must just be very lucky with timings then as most people I've spoke to have between 0 and 1 weapons and have barely seen her (myself included) as I said, I reached 50 lvl on Friday night and have seen her once since then (giving me 3 orbs) and that was Saturday. Haven't seen her since. Seen both Skoll and Ying Yang twice since then.
The only positive is it is letting me stockpile crystals as I cannot complete step 3 on my first relic yet and I refuse to use them on a second till I've completed my first..mostly as if it takes this much to spawn her (combined with low fate numbers due to excessive bunbuns and subsequent low crystal yield) I might not even bother with a second and just get my main done and dusted.