You actually pretty much just described my LS to a tee! We're a night time PST LS, and we usually run events in the hours about 9PM until 1AM. We do pretty much everything, Ifrit/Moogle/Spiritbond/Caravans/etc, though we will probably be focusing on the new 1.21 content once the patch comes out before revisiting those events. We're pretty easygoing, no one's going to be upset if you miss a night or have to afk for a while. We actually have a member who just became a dad, so he has to tend to his baby frequently and it's never a problem~
If you're interested, feel free to check out our site:
http://phoenixorder.guildwork.com. Alternately, feel free to send me a tell after the merge!
Oh also, subligars are a-ok!