Roleplaying is verrry easy and not very serious at all. It isn't hard and I see people join as new players or from other servers and are invited with arms wide open usually all the time. It is casual, laid back and very few people play in character all the time. You simply make a background for your character. Perhaps your a widow, a mute(yes its been done!) young, old, scholarly, or a seamstress. Roleplayers roleplay as simple people, not queens/kings, going through everyday events similar to you do in your quest scenarios. When In character you act like your character would act according to you. showing up to a event in say.. a subligar and harness with a giant bow strapped to your back stating you are a queen from Vanadiel traveling far to seek new lands who is 5000 years old and capable of destroying people with one glance, and chances are you wont be welcomed to the RPC. Showing up in a robe, stating to be a practicing conj who is shy and doesn't talk very much, is perfectly fine.
Roleplay is not erotic roleplay. Though some do add this to their roleplay there is many more who don't. you don't need to worry about that at all.
All in all its not -that- much different then those who don't roleplay but rather then standing around in uldah in a cluster, we seek each other out, get drunk at the bar, become pirates, mercenary's for hire, entertainers, or fight something together. Consider it no more then a little extra spice to the dish of XIV, because really, that's all that it is.
There are casual roleplayers like myself, and ones who like to stay in character. there are even some that write detailed journals about themselves that you can read. for more information please feel free to look here:
http://ffxiv-roleplayers.com/
Please take the time to scroll down the page and watch the RPC anniversary video that was well done with love for many of our players both gone and still here.
We are a friendly bunch, but there is always a few bad apples everywhere. Do not judge us because someone wanting to troll roleplay pretends to roleplay very badly in front of your friends. We can't help that more then you can help the letist shell that likes to come stick thier @$$es in your face while you craft in Uldah.
We look forward to meeting you Fabul, we look forward to meeting anyone else who like me came from somewhere else and said "Hey, they rp there? I would like to check that out!" Even if you decide it wasn't for you (but im sure you wont) Besaid is full of many really awesome shells, and a lot of kick ass players who are willing to welcome new players or new to the server.
Does this really look like a bad thing, or a group of close knitted people enjoying themselves, respecting each other and caring about the time on this game?
Roleplayers Tribute
(The Video Was made by Kylin who went to great lengths to provide pictures from various events/roleplayers and linkshells for a tribute to the last two years)