I hate this argument so much. I hate all male healer gear. I only wear level 1 glam options on my male healer (except recently with my heavy armour boi look). My white mage looks the same as my crafters, my gatherers, and my ninja. People never get confused what class I am. Because I have a staff. I cast Cure. There is no shadow of a doubt I am a white mage.

If we are going to restrict based on what people think looks "ridiculous", I ask that we remove all joke outfits, the pompadour, Shinryu barding, Roegadyn RDM, Paissa houses, the Gaelicap, Naughty Nanka minion, turtles, all Seekers of the Sun males, and the entirety of the Omega raids please. I think they look silly and they offend me. :C
(sarcasm, please cat boys leave me alone)