I really can't stand people who need to "identify" with their characters in MMOs. Get a grip and stop living vicariously. This is a fantasy setting with fantasy concepts, races and lore. This is a story that has little to do with real life. Stop trying to insert yourself, your political views and your personal crusades into it.

OP can identify however they want but their character, in this game, will be male or female. If needed, pick whichever gender identity offends you the least and move on.