I'm a guy that is eating using a spoon (in my language feminine) and a fork (in my language masculine) from a plate (masculine) placed on a table (masculine) while sitting on a chair (neutral) under the light of the lamp (feminine), drinking after the meal from a glass (feminine).

Yeah, and all of that is ridiculous. Forks and spoons are just inanimate silverware; they don't have a gender.

Trying to "gender" everything is precisely why boys are ridiculed for playing with dolls, girls are ridiculed for playing with toy cars, and what have you.

Go to just about any dictionary or encyclopedia. Online or on paper. Usually the first definition of gender clearly defines is a differentiation between male or female. Nowadays the "often withing social/mental aspects" or something of that notion. OFTEN. You seriously need to study more if you think that gender cannot be used in any case that sex can be used.

Any dictionary or encyclopedia or whatever nowadays that equates sex and gender is wrong, as they are not the same, despite often being confused. Every single one of them you can cite only just goes to show how rampant the misinformation is (which is a problem I've already readily admitted exists)