Note:This retrospective is heavily subjective and comes purely from a new casual MMO player first and a long time Final Fantasy fan second so some of the things I might mention about my experience may not apply to others.
Before I start recounting my experience with XIV so far I wanna first go back to what led me to play it.
From 2013 up to 2017,my frustration and disapointment with Square Enix and how they handle the Final Fantasy brand grew larger and larger until it reached its peak with the release of Final Fantasy 15 in 2016.After that I legit stopped buying Square Enix games for a while.
During this time I kept hearing about XIV a lot ever since it's relaunch with 2.0/A Realm Reborn.Then I started watching some videos of ARR and Heavensward from youtube channels like SomeCallMeJohnny and ProJared.I watched Johnny do a livestream of the Binding Coils of Bahamut with this FC friends and that peaked my interest in the game to a new height.I planned to start playing 14 since 2017 but I was a bit intimidated at first by it's nature as an MMO and the subscription fee,that and Overwatch was my go to online game at the time.
But after I quit Overwatch,I mustered the courage to try out a free trial in March of this year and I really liked it,tho I didn't start my sub until June since I was busy with my MastersDegree midterms and finals but I did watch documentaries on XIV during that time.I started as a DPS Dragoon since that was my favorite job in Final Fantasy.And while the queue times for DPS were annoying and I hated the padding in Coerthas leading up to Garuda,I had a blast with ARR.
But it's in Heavensward where my love and admiration for the game was solidified.Sure some toxic players will exist in any online game,but most people I met,especially from the FC I was in,were very helpful and kind.Heck when I got my job crystal for Dark Knight,a fellow FC player almost instantly gave me a nice starting set of armor when he saw me near the market board close to his house.After that I continued my journey through Heavensward's MSQs and the Alexander raid.I got so engrossed and addicted to the game in HW that sometimes I would play for 7 hours straight.Heck there were moments in Heavensward where I legit shed a tear....that didn't happen to me in a FF game since FF6 and 7....(to be continued in the reply cuz I exceeded word limit xD)