I'm a level 67 paladin... Who does not know how to tank.

[KaivaC]

I never use that ranged shield attack and I never use that weak-butt rotation that increases enmity. I've gone this far without them and I prefer to keep it that way.

What are your thoughts about my confusion.

You can't be serious right now. You're confused about why other players give you grief, but you're in a level 63 dungeon and refusing to use the tools you need to keep enmity. Boi, you need to go back to the Hall of Novice and learn your basics all over again before you even attempt to post another one of these threads. Because it's clear you've either forgotten or ignored your foundation. Your primary job is to hold aggro. A tank in most situations should not ever, for any reason outside of mechanics, lose aggro.