I agree with the guy from Balmung who posted before, Mateus is a good server. Honestly, if RP is something you care about--I'd invest in a server transfer. I personally think relationships are easy. If you know yourself, and you know the person you're trying to get with--you'll find almost every interaction easy.

However, the biggest crux with humanity is that people often don't know themselves, and they're too lazy to learn others. Tack mental-illness ontop of that, and you got a recipe for disaster!