Is it possible to still find a partner?

[Magic-Mal]

I’ve been trying to find a friend that still casually plays this game. Someone that does mind to roleplay and be a good friend; someone to talk to when I need a voice, to fight in dungeons and raids with, maybe even RP romantic scenes and even just goof around? Everywhere I go it feels lifeless. Maybe it’s the server I’m in or just me trying too hard. I’m even in a FC that’s active, but I feel like the runt of the group. Everyone’s out having fun, getting married, having deep conversations. I’m trying to be apart of it, but it feels like I’m squeezing in and causing a bad vibe. Like, no one tries to get to know me at all. Whether I be myself, do my own thing, or just wait patiently. . .it always seems to end the same; where I have nothing and no one.

You've been on the marriage thread for literal years. Sorry to be blunt but you are definitely trying too hard. Or something is wrong somewhere.

[SILVERx]

You've been on the marriage thread for literal years. Sorry to be blunt but you are definitely trying too hard. Or something is wrong somewhere.

I kept running into people that only wanted the items, or changed their minds laters

[Magic-Mal]

I kept running into people that only wanted the items, or changed their minds laters

Then instead of going on the marriage thread, just spend time with people. Don't chase, admit love for, or try to marry anyone. Just treat people like people and sooner or later you will get a friend that's closer to you than the others. Treat guys like people. Treat girls like people. Don't treat them like the next romance mate or you'll look desperate. The goal should never be marriage or romance but instead be friendship. Don't even worry about the Eternal Bond. It's no different than real marriage. In that it has no meaning other than being just a thing in the end.

All the things you want in your OP, you don't even need marriage to have.