Quote Originally Posted by Gallus View Post
If you approach someone with a harmless comment at the right time, there shouldn't be a problem about it. If there is, you can either make a big deal out of it or stay calm and behave like a mature person. Under no circumstances you call someone bad, and if some people go as far as to claim that this situation happens often, I've already said I have very good reasons (backed up by a lot of experience) to think that the problem isn't the other's side oversensitivity.
Where are you getting this idea that people are out there in any large number rudely berating everyone doing less than 6k dps or whatever your personal qualifier for bad happens to be? Let me make this incredibly clear.

No one is suggesting that anyone has a right to verbally abuse other players.

Please stop trying to make this an argument about the validity of comments like the now-infamous "go into character config and uncheck the 'play like sh** box's please" or anything that extreme. At one point you argued that simply saying 'heals?' after dying could qualify as harrassment. Do you understand how crazy that is? It's one word. It's being said to someone who's job it was to do that thing. That is incredibly clearly not harrassmnet.

There is nothing wrong with pointing out errors, offering advice and expecting a baseline of competence. If you think there is maybe take some time off because multiplayer games are not meant to cater to every last person's feefees.