Quote Originally Posted by van_arn View Post
It's never acceptable to call someone bad to their face: you kick them instead and let them come to their own conclusions.

And those boogeyman games you just listed have a bunch of nice people in them, they just have less delicate flowers that wilt when they find out they're holding back their team.
This does much more harm then good, years ago when I was still pretty new to the end game scane and I wanted to try out some of the Alexander Normal raids, after 1 wipe. I was kicked from an duty with no explanation as someone who deals with major depression and anxiety(and as I’m finding out recently mild autism, this made me extremely weary and afraid to que for anything else almost to the point of wanting to quit the game, I’ve received helpful feedback other times in the game that I’ve taken into account and used to improve on, just because some people might react negatively to it doesn’t mean everyone will.