To all you successful FC leaders... How did you do it?

[RuleofThree]

I generally leave FCs after about a few weeks of trying mostly because I don't feel like I'm apart of anything in that FC. I make a comment, and no one responds. I ask a question and get nothing. A person asks if anyone wants to do a roulette, I offer, and never get an invite...or they invite someone else first, despite no one else answering the offer. Though I think the biggest nail in the coffin is Discord. I mean, like it all you want, it alienates the rest of the FC. I'm sure all the action in most of the FCs I tried out is happening in Discord. The arguement is that I should have joined that Discord server, but it's fairely likely the same thing will happen, I won't get the time of day.

At the end of the day, it's cliques. Either you are a part of them, or not.