DRG main, and I tank roulettes.
I've been berated for pulling too much in dungeons, and i've been told to pull more as well (although nicer in tone). I do agree there was some anxiety at first, but honestly, once I got over the hump I really stopped caring. Now I check the healers gear and if its not leveling gear, I pull to the wall, aoe down, and turn off tank stance if healer is adequate.
I feel pretty certain tank stance is there for people to get comfortable with tanking and I think people who are scared of tanking just need to keep giving it a shot, you will get comfortable in time. Learn from mistakes and keep pugging away.
and as a result, now that I have my 2 DRK mounts, I went from being scared to tank to barely using tank stance at all and focusing on as much DPS as I can, just like DRG. It's pretty fun.![]()