Quote Originally Posted by RuleofThree View Post
Haha..not physical address, man. It's a turn-of-phrase. Kind of like saying you are seeing the world through rose tinted glasses, or refuse to see the bad in things. I'm saying that if you are getting in parties were people mutually agree on things, accept people making mistakes, and being kind and considerate when kicking someone from the party because they aren't cutting it, I want to live in your world. As in: I want to be on your server, cause it sure as hell isn't that way on Couerl.
Dont worry, I got that you didnt wanted to come over for tea and cake (even though I'm an excellent baker!) :P

And I can assure you that it isnt like that on Odin either - I am well aware that what I'm describing is a perfect world that doesnt exist, because we're having actual jerkish eltitist and tones and tones of people who are just plain bad with or without realising it.
The only reason my experience might not be as bad as yours is my personal approach: I dont let either behaviour get to and excuse myself from parties in which I find either one of those types present - or, if the majority of the party is actually decent, I suggest for the person in question to be removed without being insulting about it.
Odin and the Chaos datacenter can be a real hell and they're not a perfect world to live in (before you're getting your transfer-ticket over), but you might be surprised how much your approach can change the tiny world of an 8-man-party you're in.

I know that they're jerks out there - on both sides - but just because I'm advocating for a change in behaviour and am saying things like "You know, it would be really nice if everyone treated everyone else with some respect" doesnt mean I dont see the problem. I just refuse to be part of it and maybe thats work out for me or maybe I'm lucky, but most of the times I dont have aweful experiences - at least not on a personal, insulting level.