I still stand by what I said on page one about this kind of behavior being horrible. I don't care how awful someone plays, these kinds of comments don't do anything to help.

However...

If what the other players from your party are saying is true (and with your track record, I'm inclined to believe them) your "play style" is painting a huge target on your back. There is no crime in not being perfect, god knows that no one else is, but not having any idea what you are doing in group content and worse, refusing to listen or communicate with your party, is detrimental to seven other people. This kind of behavior is no more acceptable than the message that prompted you to start this thread. It's hard to feel pity for you when you bring this down on yourself with your flat-out refusal to improve.

You deserved to be kicked. Not because you were bad, but because you won't listen to your party and don't seem to know how to properly process and apply criticism. Advice and even criticism isn't inherently bad and receiving it doesn't automatically make you a victim.