How would an optional, official parser be toxic?

[Aerlana]

what on earth would you guys ever do if the endgame were based around 24 man raids? If you can't get 7 other people as friends in an mmo to do raid content, there's something wrong. It's not like you need to spend 4 hour farming a pop and two hours fighting the pop boss or anything.

To answer specificaly to the sentence i did quote : Illness, hollidays, different IRL. When you get 3 night a week to do sadic content, and you decide that primals will be out of those days. Not sure you can have all. Real life before anything else !
So yes, sometime, from a team of 8 people, you finally drop to 7, 6 or even less...
My static we were 9 to limit this matter. allowing to run 51 weeks a year (just "loot run" for christmas ) without needing any pick up, while allowing our members to go in hollidays, to the wedding of the sister, or the birthday of the nephew (or his own birthday). And in 2 years, i saw 8 weeks we had a matter to be sure to get 8 to the three weekly runs. We had to move some of the days ,but was not so easy. because everyone of us get his own personnal real life also.
I left my static because wanted to have all my 7 weekly evening free. they had to find anyone to take my spot. they didnt took the first showing up, they did time to choose anyone "good enough" to fit what they wanted to do.


now, for PvE content i only play wow. In this game full of toxicity, people manage to do full PUG group to 15, 20 or sometime more people to do content harder than Xtrem primals, i think it is also possible thing in FFXIV.

On one game, it is allow to say that some people are bad, that you dont want to carry them. it is ok to play with people you did personnally choose, with your own way to choose who can come. You can decide if you want only top players or ok with getting some "weak" one.
On the other game, doing this is being toxic. Thinking that some deadweight waste the time of the 7 others is toxic.


i read on this forum "you dont pay my sub" on topics about "how to play well" (like "heal have to DPS" and others). Yes it is right. YOU dont pay my sub also. You dont want me to do how to play? dont say me how to form my parties.