You are reading it right, but it's without context. Him telling me I have weak gear, no materia, and no clears was happing during my attempt to salvage the fight. His insinuations incited my threat to 'troll' the last thousand hp. That was never, nor ever would be my intentions. Soloing the last 5% of a boss, in my eyes, would be a thrill that would take a while for me to come down on...it so rarely happens...I wouldn't willingly mess that chance up for an asshat. When you are angered, you tend not to think clearly. I don't condone my response with regards to my first response, regret it even...but what's done is done.
And you made the very same assumption yourself. I mean, I guess it could stand the reason that he utilizes FFlogs for information, but doesn't actually have the parser...but that's a bit far fetched isn't it? You assumed he made the last comment based on looking at the FFlogs website, much like my assumption that he is using ACT himself...we will never truly know...but a bit of the pot calling the kettle black there.
And you are right, the definition of toxic is subjective. Personally? I'm not really a fan of having someone throw my obvious flaws in the face of everyone present. Everyone has the examine function, everyone can see that I don't spec out dark night, everyone knows I am iLevel 360 gear. Why bring it up, if but to be an asshat? I'm not a fan of being called 'utter garbage' and a 'waste of time' just because a website, of which I have opted out on showing information for, doesn't reveal information about me.
Regardless, he is right, I don't have a clear in the new savage. i took a haitus from this game since 4.1, and came back a week before 4.4 hit. I don't have access to 370 to get in to savage, and won't for at least a few months with SE's ridiculous 450 a week cap. I don't have the money to drop to get in to savage so quickly. But again, our definition of 'toxic' is different. Even if I did have a clear on savage, and did opt in for my character to show on FFlogs...it would be as white mage, which would be completely irrelavent information to my undergeared dark knight. If anything it would show him why I have an undergeared dark knight....I focus on white mage.