where do i go from here?

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ive been playing ~4 days now, upto 15 PGL, fishing, and smithing in limsa lominsa. i dont really see anyone to party with or dunno if im leveling slowly... what should i be doing, where should i be going? where is the main town, where can i get some new equipment? i just feel a bit lost, and dont know what im really doing. any point in the right direction would be great.

step 1:collect underpants
step2:?
step 3: profit