How to give advice

[Vidu]

You guy are exaggerating OMG so dramatic.
You can’t really pretend to kick people for under performing in casual contents or that everyone need to much your standards.
And no way in casual content people can damage or greatly penalise you by under performing, maximum you need to spend 10 more minutes lol
This extreme cases of player so bad to destroy a team are so rare anyway, happens once every 50 instance.

For me its not about how much more time I spend in a dungeon, its about (in a sense) respect and everyone showing that they value the time of their fellow teammates.
If I see that someone is trying their best, maybe takes advice and improving or even goes so far to outright ask for it, I will never even consider kicking them. In a case like that, I'll gladly spend the full 90 minutes in a dungeon, trying to help, teach and support the best I can!
As soon as someone pulls the "I play only for (my own) fun"-card to excuse their slacky behaviour, how ever minor it might be, and shows that they dont care for the team and other peoples time that way, they're out.

Personally I dont expect to see perfection, I expect to see effort and a sense of awarness of the fact that you're not playing this game alone but with 3/7/23 other people. If you dont want to give them the courtesy of your best effort, why should they (want to) play with you? Why should they care for someone who made it clear that they dont care for them?

Its not about the dungeon taking 5, 10 or 30 minutes longer, its the attitude behind whats leading to this how people are gonna take it - is it someone struggeling, trying their best, listening to advice? Or is it just someone with a "lol, I just play for fun, you dont pay my sub!"-attitude? Or is it someone whos not reacting to anything thats said at all, so that you suspect them to be a bot? (I had that happen a few times - people absolutly oblivious to what they needed to do, not responding to anything. If they ultimately dont respond to "Are you a bot?", I'll remove them)
I assure you that most people arent going to mind the first kind - the seond one however...