Quote Originally Posted by AngelCheese77 View Post
Less about criticism and more about how the person in the group thought they knew the ONLY way to play BLM correctly.

My mindset? Are things dying? Y/N Is everyone alive? Y/N If you answered Yes to both questions, then just have fun. If you answered No to either or both, then maybe look at ALL the players and not just one, and adjust things.

I get tired of those who tell the tank JUST PULL BIG GROUPS! without even asking others if they are okay with that ... especially the tank! I mean, I've had that happen and I was the healer. Did anyone ask me? Nope. So people died. And I'm like ... I can't handle that much, especially as it was a new area. Most of the tanks apologize and do less, though I've had some to just complain and continue. /shrugs
Ok that's your mindset, fine. But what about the mindset of potentially 7 other people in your group? If you want to waste time by being inefficient for the sake of "fun", then do so via your own PF, not in DF.