Quote Originally Posted by alimdia View Post
Can't sympathize. I don't understand the people with your mindset who think they are above criticism and that people need to sugarcoat every little word they say. You already admit you should work on that, so instead of getting upset take the good points and learn from the situation.
Less about criticism and more about how the person in the group thought they knew the ONLY way to play BLM correctly.

My mindset? Are things dying? Y/N Is everyone alive? Y/N If you answered Yes to both questions, then just have fun. If you answered No to either or both, then maybe look at ALL the players and not just one, and adjust things.

I get tired of those who tell the tank JUST PULL BIG GROUPS! without even asking others if they are okay with that ... especially the tank! I mean, I've had that happen and I was the healer. Did anyone ask me? Nope. So people died. And I'm like ... I can't handle that much, especially as it was a new area. Most of the tanks apologize and do less, though I've had some to just complain and continue. /shrugs