RPers are gamers first. We need to be able to just drop out of character and hang out with friends, or whomever, and get stuff done.
That just sounds like Light RP to me, which would be perfectly fine on an RP server. In fact that whole post confuses the hell out of me because it's so contradictory and all over the place. This isn't the tread to argue about the goings on in the Besaid RP community currently, but if you brought that up to support your point that unofficial RP server is the way to go, then it seems you're complaining about the way RP is, on the type of server you yourself deem as ideal. The rest of the post seems to be misguided, based on the premise that in an RP server you have to be IC all the time, or that there would be ONLY RPers playing, which was explained a dozen times by now that it would never be the case.