I’ve been tanking for the last two months since I’ve returned to the game and it’s really fun. I wish I had done so sooner. Communication is all but nonexistent compared to when I first started playing and impatience is extremely annoying and a bit oxymoronic in an rpg imo, but I try not to let those things stop me from enjoying my experience, and I focus on playing the role as intended. That’s my advice. Focus on playing the role as intended. If the dps wants to “help” let em. Just practice snatching enmity from em at the last second. It’s fun. Just take your time, learn to play the role and learn the dung for next time.