Hello Lily and very sorry to hear Guilds kick you out because of a disability. I can assure you we are not like this at all. Our FC has players of all ages (18+) and we do have weekly FC nights and have different buffs up every day.
I actually have a friend that still plays the game which he is in his mid 70's, so nice to hear your mother playing also.

Feel free to check out our recruitment post http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...sive-PvE-Focus

Best of luck