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    Quote Originally Posted by HyoMinPark View Post
    You should leave personal vendettas from other threads in the other threads. Your last comment is about as constructive as all the bickering and buzzwords flying about in this thread.

    I'm all for more customization, but the suggestion should have been delivered in a far more mature and more well-thoughtout manner. And buzzwords completely left out of it.
    Out of all the things to talk about you want to talk about "buzzwords?" Also be careful with accusations, there's no personal vendettas here; spreading lies is also a reported offense.
    The irony in your last sentence is that there's nothing more immature than spreading lies and not practicing what you preach.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ghastly View Post
    Out of all the things to talk about you want to talk about "buzzwords?" Also be careful with accusations, there's no personal vendettas here; spreading lies is also a reported offense.
    The irony in your last sentence is that there's nothing more immature than spreading lies and not practicing what you preach.
    The opening posts and subsequent responses have devolved this thread into nothing more than bickering filled with buzzwords about “white-washing” and the like with regards to character customization in this game. The OP has failed to acknowledge or respond to the myriad of examples provided by posters that some of the traits they desire are achievable in the system as it currently stands. Instead, they chose to personally attack several of the posters that disagreed with them with insinuations that they were stupid and/or slow. Responses like that don’t make people coming into the thread keen to listen to them; at least, it didn’t for me. I have no qualms about people asking for more curly/kinked hairstyles, more face types for all races, or for color sliders/color wheels to add in even more personalization. But the heated talks about skin color and inequality with regards to representativeness were unneeded.

    Any sort of well-thought out suggestions were lost the moment people started turning this into a real-life racial “debate” within a fantasy game. If you want to make suggestions for more character customization, leave terminology that can be construed as insinuations that one or more parties are “racist” out of it.

    It’s not spreading lies when someone points out that you continue to unconstructively respond to someone with “high horse” comments in various threads**. Nor it is spreading lies to say that it’s not constructive to the overall discussion. Your comment about it was completely unnecessary, but you felt the need to make it anyways. But, by all means, call others the immature ones.

    **EDIT: My mistake— your comments were all made in this thread. This is what happens when I read too many strange threads on the OF. So I’ll apologize for my mistake; however, the continued comments about “high horses” are still unnecessary and not constructive, and the bickering should stop. From everyone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HyoMinPark View Post
    The opening posts and subsequent responses have devolved this thread into nothing more than bickering filled with buzzwords about “white-washing” and the like with regards to character customization in this game. The OP has failed to acknowledge or respond to the myriad of examples provided by posters that some of the traits they desire are achievable in the system as it currently stands. Instead, they chose to personally attack several of the posters that disagreed with them with insinuations that they were stupid and/or slow. Responses like that don’t make people coming into the thread keen to listen to them; at least, it didn’t for me. I have no qualms about people asking for more curly/kinked hairstyles, more face types for all races, or for color sliders/color wheels to add in even more personalization. But the heated talks about skin color and inequality with regards to representativeness were unneeded.

    Any sort of well-thought out suggestions were lost the moment people started turning this into a real-life racial “debate” within a fantasy game. If you want to make suggestions for more character customization, leave terminology that can be construed as insinuations that one or more parties are “racist” out of it.

    It’s not spreading lies when someone points out that you continue to unconstructively respond to someone with “high horse” comments in various threads**. Nor it is spreading lies to say that it’s not constructive to the overall discussion. Your comment about it was completely unnecessary, but you felt the need to make it anyways. But, by all means, call others the immature ones.

    **EDIT: My mistake— your comments were all made in this thread. This is what happens when I read too many strange threads on the OF. So I’ll apologize for my mistake; however, the continued comments about “high horses” are still unnecessary and not constructive, and the bickering should stop. From everyone.
    You saying "everyone" brings the important factor of why some of you are bothered by the idea suggested in OP: You think that if anyone disagrees with your disagreement of the idea of better race representation that they're calling you a racist. As a matter of fact, you have no proof of such insinuations besides paranoia. What you're essentially seeking is people to rinse the subject through to the point where it's no longer asking for race options so that your paranoia for discussing the subject disappears.

    See how you continue to make this about how the idea is being delivered and never about the idea itself?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ghastly View Post
    See how you continue to make this about how the idea is being delivered and never about the idea itself?
    And they keep DOING IT too. Harping and harping on delivery this and delivery that, who cares at this point? If everyone is so on board with everything just talk about the suggestion then.

    If I ask for mixed races, who cares if it's because I like mixed people IRL, like humans with plastic kitty ear hats, or like the idea of a Miqo'te-Hyur mix. It doesn't matter.

    If someone wants bigger butts, it could be because they want a butt similar to their own, want to see a big butt all the time, want to be aroused all the time, or just want to be normal. The motive doesn't detract from the suggestion.

    Stop dodging the request by inflating the thread with stupid tumblr-buzzword-racewar-delivery stuff.

    I'm sure the OP would love to spend her time chatting about hairstyle and face ideas instead of racism for 20 more pages.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic-Mal View Post
    I'm sure the OP would love to spend her time chatting about hairstyle and face ideas instead of racism for 20 more pages.
    Great! Next time, don't open such a discussion while insinuating lack of customization is due to a "racial issue." The well has long been tainted, and the OP has no one else except themselves to blame. Notice how every other thread asking for better customization receives precisely zero backlash regarding racism. There's a reason. They don't mention it in their opening post nor anywhere in the discussion thereafter.

    It's pretty simple. If you don't want people talking about "stupid tumblr buzzwords" don't bring up stupid tumblr idiocy. What a novel concept!

    In fact, a perfect comparison would be creating a thread citing how toxic and elitist raiders are only to subsequently claim you wanted to have a discussion about how to improve the raid community. People aren't going to care because the initial post was aggressive much in the same way the OP's post and follow up responses carried a race baiting and condescending undertone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bourne_Endeavor View Post
    Great! Next time, don't open such a discussion while insinuating lack of customization is due to a "racial issue." The well has long been tainted, and the OP has no one else except themselves to blame. Notice how every other thread asking for better customization receives precisely zero backlash regarding racism. There's a reason. They don't mention it in their opening post nor anywhere in the discussion thereafter.

    It's pretty simple. If you don't want people talking about "stupid tumblr buzzwords" don't bring up stupid tumblr idiocy. What a novel concept!

    In fact, a perfect comparison would be creating a thread citing how toxic and elitist raiders are only to subsequently claim you wanted to have a discussion about how to improve the raid community. People aren't going to care because the initial post was aggressive much in the same way the OP's post and follow up responses carried a race baiting and condescending undertone.
    I just re-read OPs post and whatever was said that had anything to do with race or racism was extremely light and the post was not aggressive. It all started with Valkyrie's post. It's not OP's fault you got your panties in a bunch over what she said. If anything with your reaction, you could qualify more as "Tumblr-worthy" for continuing it instead of dropping it. Letting go.

    Anyways, I'm not going to respond anymore if you're going to keep talking about OP's attitude instead of her request.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic-Mal View Post
    I just re-read OPs post and whatever was said that had anything to do with race or racism was extremely light and the post was not aggressive. It all started with Valkyrie's post. It's not OP's fault you got your panties in a bunch over what she said. If anything with your reaction, you could qualify more as "Tumblr-worthy" for continuing it instead of dropping it. Letting go.

    Anyways, I'm not going to respond anymore if you're going to keep talking about OP's attitude instead of her request.
    Extremely light yet the OP made no less than two direct insinuations of racism, accusing SE of, "catering towards white people." She proceeds with this aggressive undertone and rudely engages everyone instead of attempting to sheer the conversation towards customization or acknowledging they may have been overzealous. People, myself included, are simply responding to how the OP has engaged us. You don't get to abruptly demand people talk about what you purported want after being disingenuous. If the OP showed some humility, perhaps the conversation would have changed long ago. She didn't. And more people chose to comment on the subject which the topic shifted towards. This is why your presentation in any debate is important. Don't blame everyone else because the OP acted defensively and spurred on a racial discussion only to balk when people rightfully called her out.

    No one cares about the OP's request any longer. Her attitude has dominated the thread, and that is of her own making. Next time, if you want to discuss the game's lack of customization instead of claiming FFXIV has a racial issue say it has poor customization options.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ghastly View Post
    See how you continue to make this about how the idea is being delivered and never about the idea itself?
    If you want an idea to be properly discussed, deliver it in a well-thoughtout manner. Poor delivery results in poorer discussion.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HyoMinPark View Post
    If you want an idea to be properly discussed, deliver it in a well-thoughtout manner. Poor delivery results in poorer discussion.
    And you are to judge?
    Is it that you don't understand what's being asked?
    Or are you intentionally playing "dumb" to avoid the subject itself?
    Or is the "poor delivery" that you don't like the tone so you're proving what I was saying before about your entire intention in this subject is to deflect and never talk about the subject itself? Because so far that's all you've done in this thread which by forum guidelines is a violation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ghastly View Post
    And you are to judge?
    Is it that you don't understand what's being asked?
    Or are you intentionally playing "dumb" to avoid the subject itself?
    Or is the "poor delivery" that you don't like the tone so you're proving what I was saying before about your entire intention in this subject is to deflect and never talk about the subject itself? Because so far that's all you've done in this thread which by forum guidelines is a violation.
    I already stated I’m not against more customization; I’d actually prefer it over another race. I am against the poor labeling that was done in the thread title and in the opening post, because it sets up a biased premise.

    This post also fits into your last comment, by the way. I’ve at least addressed the customization desires in 2/3–now 3/4–of my posts in this thread. That’s not against the forum rules.
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