This sounds like another Tale of the Duty Finder (party finder?) Story. I have runs like this all the time. When you use PF you are exposed to a wide variety of players on all levels of the spectrum, I've encountered:

- A guy who told us he had never run O7S the moment we pulled in our enrage party.
- An arguement about positions that led to a disband before our first pull.
- Elitist jerks who want to dictate the party despite not being lead
- players who won't listen to advice when they are the reason we are wiping. Saying to the NIN "Please use trick attack here because you aren't lining up with everyone's burst/dots" isn't harassment and you should be expected to try to improve.

And my personal favourite:

- Mr silent who doesn't listen to anything the party is saying and gives no input whatsoever and lives in their own bubble.



So yeah, I'm sorry you had a bad party OP, but welcome to the wonderful world of sharing a game with anonymous strangers.