Quote Originally Posted by xbamfo View Post
But besides that, what seems unacceptable about another option? It's not like this would take away or replace anything.
You made the claim that what we have is unacceptable; it was fair for me to ask why.
It still sounds like the problem is with people who don't understand and respect what it means for you to be /busy, which is not a problem with the system. If you can explain to us here that sometimes you just want to play with your SO, surely you can explain it to your friends as well?