Thanks for the replies. I think I'll just start taking the main tank mindset. It seems like most tanks don't actually want to tabk, as they all sit there waiting to see if I pull, just like I was doing with them. I was trying to let them decide since I'm usually the nooby of the two tanks.

Im not to the hardcore content yet, and yeah, it does seem like anyone can tank current easier content. I mostly just wanted to know if there were unspoken rules, like certain classes get to MT more, or better gear = should be dpsing because they get more out of it, etc... It doesn't seem to be the case though.