Why is this a trend I'm running into lately? (Jade Stoa Ex / Farming runs, in general, I keep running into this.)

I am a Scholar.

I ran Emanation (Extreme) last night and ran into probably the rudest of rude Astros. We were in a farm party and the people I was grouped with didn't understand why I was frustrated.

Every single time I cast Succor - they would - overwrite it. Even an Adlo...

I know this fight can be solo healed - I've done it before but I can't wrap my head around someone who would purposely epeen over my Sch maybe because they had better gear than I do? Even so, it didn't make sense to me when we could just work together with him in Dirunal.

This is not just a one-time occurrence. I've run other Farm PTs where people won't get out of Nocturnal. Even after several tries, it's not because pulling too fast, they just don't want to switch out.

I ended up going Astro to compliment the PT roles to which I received a nasty message about how I am bad and need to reroll. If this is the case, please let me know now...That person ended up leaving and my party didn't seem to understand my issue because "were not healers."

So it's something I feel like should be discussed more among people so that this does not make me feel so frustrated. I really don't understand why it happens so please tell me.