We got it straight. Instead of buying a house and being happy you had one your friend set her sights on a dream plot and got salty when someone who had settled for less was able to buy it instead.

Relocation is as fair as it is going to get. Why is the relocation timer instant, it's a perk of home ownership. I would agree if we weren't leaving a plot behind but we do. A plot that might be desireable to someone else who bought a starter home and has been looking too...