Sexual harassment

[Elamys]

I never made that statement. What you think is victim blaming is not that at all. All you care about is forcing people to feel sorry for themselves for the rest of their lives, rather than actually helping them. Then you pretend to be the hero, even though you want to do nothing to actually help them get past it or help prevent future occurrences.

Wow. If that's the impression you got from my posts then I'm not sure that it's even worth discussing this topic with you ever.

Also, please join the year 2018. Sending nudes is neither illegal nor morally wrong. However, distributing nude photographs or videos that somebody has given you as a form of blackmail is both.

In short: There's extremely obvious merit to doing what you can to protect yourself but I'm far more interested in working against the people who actually did something illegal or highly immoral as opposed to the person who didn't. The victim already knows they could have done something different to prevent this, they don't need to hear it over and over and over again. Speaking as somebody who has experienced this, it's 100% not so simple, and I don't know how often people are going to need to repeat this. Abusers do not come at you with fangs, they come at you with smiles.

Again: Just because you can hurt someone doesn't mean you have to.