Sexual harassment

[Elamys]

They should have been more cautious. There are a lot of terrible people out there. They also aren't girls at that point.

Dude, you can do everything right and still be attacked or whatever. How often do you see it? Someone commits some kind of horrible crime, they interview the people who knew them, and everyone says that they seemed so nice, very normal, etc. You could lock all your doors and someone picks the lock. You could drill someone on their past and keep yourself really distant from them before becoming friends only to have them lash out at you in some way. You could be sitting at a bar, not known for its violence, minding your own business, celebrating your birthday with your friends, when a fight breaks out and a stray bullet kills you (this happened in my city). I don't like this assumption that everyone who is a victim made some colossally stupid mistake because honestly, it's not true, and it's definitely not that simple.

Or, you could be in what you believed to be a truly loving relationship with another person and send them nudes, something that two consenting adults are allowed to do, only to have them threaten to spread them around because you did something they didn't like.