Hahaaaa i wasnt really seeking help in here. was just a thread i posted for fun. as i said in the original post lol.

I know tanking well now. it's all about THMs feeling like they do something that is difficult to do and feeling awesome about it when in reallity they do something that the crappiest THM can do if he spams thunder combos.. thats all.
Imma go now. will find those THMS and tell them to tank while i am THM...
I'LL SHOW THEM AWESOME!!

jk. i aint hating really. It's only in pickup parties that i have issue like that. my own group knows better that to do stuff that will actually decrease the chances of success in a battle. (and there another smiley face, that should do it)