Tank Stance

[HyoMinPark]

i mean diversions great and all but there are some tanks that are so bad diversion isn't enough

While that is true, there’s no way of knowing if this tank was one of those tanks, and he wasn’t wrong when he said enmity is the responsibility of the entire party (that would also include himself, but I’m speaking purely on the side of DPS that refuse to use their enmity management skills here). And it doesn’t excuse the fact that OP is still in the wrong for blatantly refusing to use Diversion themselves when aggro was apparently already an issue without it.