Quote Originally Posted by RiyahArp View Post
And I've also seen what happens when one person chooses the raid over their friend.

The person who chooses the raid stops doing things with their friend. The raid takes up so much time and energy, that they don't really want to grind older stuff. The friend becomes more of a hanger on; they always compete with the raid even if they choose to not do it. Because raids really do take a lot of time.

Discord? lol. You end up on the raid discord, because you spend more time with the static and do things that are important to them.

I think a lot of people don't realize this happens until its too late.
Somehow, I feel as if you're pitting one extremity that has occurred because you've seen it happen once and think it's the standard norm all of the time here.