Loaded into E1N do a ready check, a HEALER isnt ready yet. and a DNC (who was both under-geared and a tool) in party chat "OMG come one already"
Healer hits "ready" so we get the 8/8.
I hit the 20 sec countdown because there a nin, sch, and dnc in the party
5 seconds later the same DNC "This is taking too long" and pulls the boss.
wipe
try again. same. fucking. thing
So this time I DM the OT (who was a total bro) and give him the details of my revenge. We both agree to pull in tank stance and play agro tag for a minute. then right before the TB comes out, we turn off tank stacne and BOTH shirk the DNC. He gets killed.

I should note that before we pulled, we DMd the rest of the party to let them know the plan

Healers didn't raise the DNC and at 2% we all stop attacking and let the boss kill us. wipe

DNC ofc freaks TF out. to which we all basically reply "sorry, we weren't ready for the pull, maybe wait for the countdown next time".

DNC leaves, and we 7 man the raid

*we could have finished but I didnt want to give the DNC a carry so that why we reset at the end