[Suggestion] Make "remove from friends list" 2-way

[Araxes]

Something should be done about that Situation. Better sooner than Later.

[Ken_8O]

I agree with this 100% and always have from day 1. If you have to ask permission to be on someone's friend list, that should be revoked when you take them off yours. I know people who have abandoned their characters or the game over this.

1. If you removed someone from your friends list, you should be automatically removed from theirs
2. If you change servers, you should be prompted if you want to wipe you friend's list clean
3. When you divorce someone in game it should go both ways. Both rings are no longer active.
4. If a new adventurer removes and blacklists someone and another person still has the Aetheryte Pendulum, it should not be usable.

[lockey_breezewalker]

You guys seem to forget another annoying feature. You cant blacklist or unfriend people that are offline.

[HyoMinPark]

You guys seem to forget another annoying feature. You cant blacklist or unfriend people that are offline.

Blacklist, no. However, you can delete offline friends off of your friend’s list. The removal is not two-way, though. Which is what this thread is advocating for. If I no longer want to be friends with someone, I’d like myself removed from their friends list when I remove them from mine. Likewise, if someone deletes me off of theirs, just remove them from mine.

[xxvaynxx]

Please this, so annoying when people you removed are still able to mail you and among other things people said.
Also not being able to blacklist people offline is pretty dumb too.

[BillyKaplan]

I get the feeling that even if they implement it, it'll require you and your soon-to-be-ex-friend to both be online. Similar to how you can't blacklist someone when they're offline. Granted, it'll still be better than what we have now, I just hope it won't tempt them to give the unfriended party a notification they've been unfriended. That's asking for drama, not to mention abuse.

[Rogatum]

I get the feeling that even if they implement it, it'll require you and your soon-to-be-ex-friend to both be online. Similar to how you can't blacklist someone when they're offline. Granted, it'll still be better than what we have now, I just hope it won't tempt them to give the unfriended party a notification they've been unfriended. That's asking for drama, not to mention abuse.

Knowing SE they will send a notification.

[SpiritMuse]

Wait, are you serious? How is this a thing that is happening. You need both parties' consent to be on the friends list, how would you not remove both parties from each other's list as soon as one revokes this consent?

[Araxes]

Wait, are you serious? How is this a thing that is happening. You need both parties' consent to be on the friends list, how would you not remove both parties from each other's list as soon as one revokes this consent?

I have no idea why but its very unsettling

[alimdia]

Prepare yourself for disappointment

Q: Please change the current feature where deleting a friend from my list will still have my name appear in the deleted friend's name list

A: This is a delicate issue because the opponent will be shocked if we are to implement deletion on both sides. We cannot guarantee this will not cause any problems here which is why we have this current feature right now.

https://www.reddit.com/r/ffxiv/comme..._the_32nd_pll/