[Suggestion] Make "remove from friends list" 2-way

[MOZZYSTAR]

This makes me wonder about the teleport to friend's housing feature. Does this mean people I have removed from my friend list and have blacklisted can teleport to my house and my fc?

I am honestly not sure about this, but I think in theory that they would be able to if they can send you mail and access your info via the friend list, etc. I believe that I have someone from my old FC on my list that may no longer have me on their list (I think this because they no longer notice me/greet me/etc. whenever I see them, they just run right by me). I just tried to teleport to his FC house out of curiosity and I was able to teleport successfully. If they had removed me,then yes: people can teleport to your home even if they're not on your list because you're on THEIR list... but, I could be wrong and I might still be on their list... In which case... experiment failed? (It would be awkward to ask, haaa... /dies inside. "Hey, uhm, hi. We uh, used to try the Kugane puzzle tower together. Do you still have me on your friends' list? :'3 " "...Who ARE you?!" "Aaahh, I'm sorrryyy. Dx /identity crisis." <-- I imagine it going like this. >>;; )

[MOZZYSTAR]

Bumping until we get this fixed -sings-

[Lartus]

I got one more joke for you guys:
The friendlist-removal isn't the only thing that is only 1-way.
When you are married and then divorce, then your ex is still considered being married with you, he can even teleport to you with the ring.
Got divorced from my ex 1-way, then after a year my ex came back and used the ring to teleport to me.

I mean seriously, friendlist is one thing, but a divorce has to be 2-ways. Just imagine how it would been in real life when a divorce would only be 1-way: You lose all your rights towards your ex, but your ex can still execute his rights towards you, like wtf?

I support the OPs idea of making remove from friendlist 2-way and want to add "make divorce 2-way and the ring unusable".

[Niwashi]

This makes me wonder about the teleport to friend's housing feature. Does this mean people I have removed from my friend list and have blacklisted can teleport to my house and my fc?

And if a "New Adventurer" has removed and blacklisted someone, but that someone has an Aetheryte Pendulum, it can still be used to teleport to the aetherite nearest the new player's current location for free.

[MOZZYSTAR]

The friendlist-removal isn't the only thing that is only 1-way.
When you are married and then divorce, then your ex is still considered being married with you, he can even teleport to you with the ring.
Got divorced from my ex 1-way, then after a year my ex came back and used the ring to teleport to me.

The fffuuuu---... Holy crap. Glad I moved servers, then, cuz my Eorzean spouse did not want to "divorce" for like...two years even though I wasn't on the game at the time. Still didn't want to even after I came back, so he probably didn't relinquish ring.

And if a "New Adventurer" has removed and blacklisted someone, but that someone has an Aetheryte Pendulum, it can still be used to teleport to the aetherite nearest the new player's current location for free.

This is also a messed up. :/
Hope you guys don't mind, but I'd like to add your quotes to the first post!

[Araxes]

And if a "New Adventurer" has removed and blacklisted someone, but that someone has an Aetheryte Pendulum, it can still be used to teleport to the aetherite nearest the new player's current location for free.

I didnt know that :O Se really need to fix that stuff

[Penthea]

I got one more joke for you guys:
The friendlist-removal isn't the only thing that is only 1-way.
When you are married and then divorce, then your ex is still considered being married with you, he can even teleport to you with the ring.
Got divorced from my ex 1-way, then after a year my ex came back and used the ring to teleport to me.

And if a "New Adventurer" has removed and blacklisted someone, but that someone has an Aetheryte Pendulum, it can still be used to teleport to the aetherite nearest the new player's current location for free.

Anything in which two people must agree to something should instantly become void as soon as one person no longer wants to take part. I honestly assumed this was the case until I read this thread. This is basic...I am astonished that this issue is even present, never mind in various social aspects of the systen including marriage.

The marriage issue actually has the potential to be so creepy.

[Araxes]

The marriage issue actually has the potential to be so creepy.

Absolutely this!

[EorzeaHero69]

That should be a thing. And maybe make friend list and blacklist account wide and not character wide, mostly to prevent people from blacklist evading to harrass people that blacklisted them with an alt if it's in the same service account.

[Atreides]

I think what's even worse than being the guy that has removed your "friend" and is still on his list is...
being the guy that got removed from your friend list and still thinks he is on your friend list and wonders why you never greet him back when you bump into eachother.
So it works both sides, I'd prefer to have a person that removed me cleansed from my fl aswell.