[Suggestion] Make "remove from friends list" 2-way

[Fhaerron]

I could care less if they looked up my lodestone, personally. What I do care is if they can still PM me, teleport to my house/apartment, etc. (I don't care if they visit my house, but if they're not on my friends list, why should I be on theirs?), etc. I'm talking regular instances. No longer game together or no longer considered friends, etc.? Just remove them, yenno? If skype and some other social aspects make the removal two-way, there's absolutely no reason FFXIV can't make it two-way.

Not fully true.
If you remove a person from your friend list they can no longer port to your house or FC house.

They can STILL send you PM and mail, put them on blacklist and they can no longer send mail. They can still PM but you won't see the messages.
When you try to send a mail to somebody that has put you on blacklist you get the 'unable to send, attached gil and items recovered'. > I tested this with a friend once about 8 months ago so unless they changed it since then.


You can do far more with Lodestone which is public, There's no doubt some 'stalker' sites that scan and keep record of lodestone ID's and keep track if somebody changes privacy settings, scans the friends they have, etc etc.


Also, I'm pretty sure the #serverlimitations would apply here too.


Anyway you shouldn't worry to much about your ingame stuff, worry about lodestone, there's real stalkers out there and changing your name or transferring won't do anything Lodestone ID is unique, the only way to escape this is to delete your character and create a new one.