[Suggestion] Make "remove from friends list" 2-way

[xxvaynxx]

Please this, so annoying when people you removed are still able to mail you and among other things people said.
Also not being able to blacklist people offline is pretty dumb too.

[SpiritMuse]

Wait, are you serious? How is this a thing that is happening. You need both parties' consent to be on the friends list, how would you not remove both parties from each other's list as soon as one revokes this consent?

[Araxes]

Wait, are you serious? How is this a thing that is happening. You need both parties' consent to be on the friends list, how would you not remove both parties from each other's list as soon as one revokes this consent?

I have no idea why but its very unsettling

[alimdia]

Prepare yourself for disappointment

Q: Please change the current feature where deleting a friend from my list will still have my name appear in the deleted friend's name list

A: This is a delicate issue because the opponent will be shocked if we are to implement deletion on both sides. We cannot guarantee this will not cause any problems here which is why we have this current feature right now.

https://www.reddit.com/r/ffxiv/comme..._the_32nd_pll/

[KaivaC]

Prepare yourself for disappointment



https://www.reddit.com/r/ffxiv/comme..._the_32nd_pll/

While that's...disappointing, who cares if the other person is shocked that they were deleted at the same time that we removed them. I can't even think that this would be a cultural issue - this feels like the dev team might be a little out of touch with things. Very disappointing to hear. Is the spaghetti code bad enough that they can't even do this, or are there other issues that I'm missing here. A QoL thing like this shouldn't be that difficult to implement, should it?

[HyoMinPark]

Prepare yourself for disappointment

https://www.reddit.com/r/ffxiv/comme..._the_32nd_pll/

I can’t even with this response. Like okay, they don’t want people’s feelings to get hurt... but what about someone who doesn’t even know they’ve been deleted off of someone’s friend’s list sending that person cross-server /tells or Moogle Mail that continue to always go unanswered? I’d be more spared if someone deleted me and their name was also deleted off of my friend’s list. Okay, I would then know they didn’t want to be friends anymore.

[Eryna]

Prepare yourself for disappointment

Q: Please change the current feature where deleting a friend from my list will still have my name appear in the deleted friend's name list

A: This is a delicate issue because the opponent will be shocked if we are to implement deletion on both sides. We cannot guarantee this will not cause any problems here which is why we have this current feature right now.


https://www.reddit.com/r/ffxiv/comme..._the_32nd_pll/

Sorry for the necro bump but I didn't see this PLL.
I'm speechless.

I can’t even with this response. Like okay, they don’t want people’s feelings to get hurt... but what about someone who doesn’t even know they’ve been deleted off of someone’s friend’s list sending that person cross-server /tells or Moogle Mail that continue to always go unanswered? I’d be more spared if someone deleted me and their name was also deleted off of my friend’s list. Okay, I would then know they didn’t want to be friends anymore.

+1

[KaivaC]

The answers that were given by Yoshi were...ugh...

I'll wait for the appropriate thread rather than derailing this thread, but wow...I don't know what to say about this...not very confident about the future.