[Suggestion] Make "remove from friends list" 2-way

[Penthea]

I got one more joke for you guys:
The friendlist-removal isn't the only thing that is only 1-way.
When you are married and then divorce, then your ex is still considered being married with you, he can even teleport to you with the ring.
Got divorced from my ex 1-way, then after a year my ex came back and used the ring to teleport to me.

And if a "New Adventurer" has removed and blacklisted someone, but that someone has an Aetheryte Pendulum, it can still be used to teleport to the aetherite nearest the new player's current location for free.

Anything in which two people must agree to something should instantly become void as soon as one person no longer wants to take part. I honestly assumed this was the case until I read this thread. This is basic...I am astonished that this issue is even present, never mind in various social aspects of the systen including marriage.

The marriage issue actually has the potential to be so creepy.

[Araxes]

The marriage issue actually has the potential to be so creepy.

Absolutely this!

[EorzeaHero69]

That should be a thing. And maybe make friend list and blacklist account wide and not character wide, mostly to prevent people from blacklist evading to harrass people that blacklisted them with an alt if it's in the same service account.

[Atreides]

I think what's even worse than being the guy that has removed your "friend" and is still on his list is...
being the guy that got removed from your friend list and still thinks he is on your friend list and wonders why you never greet him back when you bump into eachother.
So it works both sides, I'd prefer to have a person that removed me cleansed from my fl aswell.

[Araxes]

Something should be done about that Situation. Better sooner than Later.

[Ken_8O]

I agree with this 100% and always have from day 1. If you have to ask permission to be on someone's friend list, that should be revoked when you take them off yours. I know people who have abandoned their characters or the game over this.

1. If you removed someone from your friends list, you should be automatically removed from theirs
2. If you change servers, you should be prompted if you want to wipe you friend's list clean
3. When you divorce someone in game it should go both ways. Both rings are no longer active.
4. If a new adventurer removes and blacklists someone and another person still has the Aetheryte Pendulum, it should not be usable.

[lockey_breezewalker]

You guys seem to forget another annoying feature. You cant blacklist or unfriend people that are offline.

[HyoMinPark]

You guys seem to forget another annoying feature. You cant blacklist or unfriend people that are offline.

Blacklist, no. However, you can delete offline friends off of your friend’s list. The removal is not two-way, though. Which is what this thread is advocating for. If I no longer want to be friends with someone, I’d like myself removed from their friends list when I remove them from mine. Likewise, if someone deletes me off of theirs, just remove them from mine.

[BillyKaplan]

I get the feeling that even if they implement it, it'll require you and your soon-to-be-ex-friend to both be online. Similar to how you can't blacklist someone when they're offline. Granted, it'll still be better than what we have now, I just hope it won't tempt them to give the unfriended party a notification they've been unfriended. That's asking for drama, not to mention abuse.

[Rogatum]

I get the feeling that even if they implement it, it'll require you and your soon-to-be-ex-friend to both be online. Similar to how you can't blacklist someone when they're offline. Granted, it'll still be better than what we have now, I just hope it won't tempt them to give the unfriended party a notification they've been unfriended. That's asking for drama, not to mention abuse.

Knowing SE they will send a notification.