Quote Originally Posted by itsokimbatman View Post
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It sounds to me like you have the right attitude and mindset about healing so I'm thinking that you aren't the issue at all. I main as AST but decided to level PLD for the experience and seeing things from that perspective has been invaluable. You really need to learn how to effectively manage your skills as a tank in order to be successful and I also feel like some people may feel pressured to DPS as a tank. DPS stance makes for a squishy tank.