in the end we should just have fun. Lets not treat ffxiv or its future endgane like "work" as it was before in ffxi. Lets just focus on our character and stop worrying about how other ppl play. Even after the changes. Thats the one thing in mmo that bugs me is ppl feel the "need" to make a game be "work", and order other players around in how to play their classes. If ppl are not the norm set up, don't worry about it. Give them a chance.
One thing that really bigged me is ppl going out of their way to insult someone for style of play. Not needed ever.