Mod users in FFXIV are getting out of control

[Bourne_Endeavor]

I think this is one where we can't just agree. Some people view characters as tools i guess, and some make them part of themselves. IDK

Perhaps not. I will say, there is nothing wrong with developing an attachment to your character or creating an extension of yourself. You do you, boo. It only becomes an issue when you force your idealized version of your fantasy onto others. I, personally, couldn't care less what your character looks like outside a passing glance if you happen to be wearing something I think cute or whatnot. These mods change absolutely because you aren't seeing them. If someone has a nudity mod installed and you pass by them in the Emperor set, nothing on your screen changes. The fantasy you have crafted for your character is not in any way altered just like if you imagined this entire world inside your own head.