Mod users in FFXIV are getting out of control

[PocketFox]

So how do I avoid feeling harassed by all the female avatars I see in as little clothing as is allowed by the game itself, strutting around in public spaces with their jublies hanging out as much as possible?

(That was a joke.)

In all seriousness, every community has its bad apples. While it's unfortunate you seem to have gotten some icky whispers and such, that still doesn't lend much credence to your original post, which seemed to be little more than paranoia. There was a lot of "can" and a lot of assumptions without any actual evidence that a) such things were actually happening to you or b) that you were being shown these hypothetical screenshots or being harrassed (before you made this post, that is).

And on a snarkier note...

Honey, I can almost guarantee people aren't modding their games to look at *your* character. Nobody -- not you, not me -- is that special. They're doing it to look at their own.