Mod users in FFXIV are getting out of control

[Skivvy]

Is it really incredibly offensive though? I think a little step backwards followed by a reality check is in order here

Are we now at the point where we get to judge what other people may or may not find offensive?

We don't know how old OP is (maybe they're a minor?), we don't know their relationship history or if there has ever been any abuse. Maybe they just don't enjoy unwanted sexual attention? They could also be a giant prude. Regardless of the reason, just because you don't find something offensive doesn't mean that someone else shouldn't as well.