Mod users in FFXIV are getting out of control

[Exiled_Tonberry]

So? I don't mind my character being seen at all, I dress skimpy enough as is.

[Sebazy]

But why should she have to?

Because learning to cope with, diffuse and handle situations like this is one of the most valuable life skills that many people seem to lack these days.

This is a far more important detail in the grand scheme of things than drama over a generic bare behind that might have your character's name above it.

So? I don't mind my character being seen at all, I dress skimpy enough as is.

Don't make me post the potato again!

[Skivvy]

Because learning to cope with, diffuse and handle situations like this is one of the most valuable life skills that many people seem to lack these days.

Which is why I said blisting is probably the best option. If someone is being incredibly offense to you, you shouldn't just have to put up with it and play along.

Yes, learning to cope with idiots and situations you don't enjoy is part of life, however, people who are intentionally harassing someone with this should not be given the free pass that this thread seems to be giving them.

[Sebazy]

Which is why I said blisting is probably the best option. If someone is being incredibly offense to you, you shouldn't just have to put up with it and play along.

Is it really incredibly offensive though? I think a little step backwards followed by a reality check is in order here.

Malora's example from a few pages back strikes me as something to legitimately be concerned about. This is just silly nonsense that appears to have escaped a children's playground.

[Skivvy]

Is it really incredibly offensive though? I think a little step backwards followed by a reality check is in order here

Are we now at the point where we get to judge what other people may or may not find offensive?

We don't know how old OP is (maybe they're a minor?), we don't know their relationship history or if there has ever been any abuse. Maybe they just don't enjoy unwanted sexual attention? They could also be a giant prude. Regardless of the reason, just because you don't find something offensive doesn't mean that someone else shouldn't as well.

[Sebazy]

Are we now at the point where we get to judge what other people may or may not find offensive?

No, but we are at the point where it's pretty clear that they are working themselves up over something that's simply not worth the bother. Thus my advice.

And no, I don't buy that they are a giant prude. Sorry.